Leaving

Drawing the line in the sand is often a most fearful experience, especially for those who have been the object of a Personality Disordered person. They choose their words and actions for optimum effect and this gives them power. It gives them power because they create an uncertainty in you. No matter which way you choose, they will twist it until it becomes your noose. So don't bother with which is the lesser punishment that you might receive. Stand. Even if you might choose 'wrongly' take a stand - without emotion, without wavering. This takes away their power over you. They will never understand. They will never apologize for how they hurt you. Sometimes just walking away is what will confound them and break the chains with which they have bound you. Freedom from them is like suddenly rising above the riptide.